This past Wednesday my nephew Ashton was born! We were so happy to greet him at the hospital and to find out that he and his mom (my sister) are healthy and happy. They stayed at the hospital for observation for three days and during that time my mom and I looked after my other nephew, Ashton's older brother, keeping him company, going on trips to the petting zoo, and spending the night at nana's house.
We welcomed Ashton with open arms and spent very precious quiet moments with him, he has proven to be a very chilled and easy going baby. Even though things were very busy and fun, we all had a chance to slow down and just be. And breathe, holding a tiny little soul that has just begun his journey and hope for the very best for him. I am so grateful for the ability for our immediate family to all be present to greet him at the same time, what a nice family moment it was.
Today my sister and her family transitioned home after their stay at the hospital. I know it will be an adjustment for Kestan to go from only child to big brother but I know they will find their new 'normal' as a family and it will be great.
I loved the chance to observe (again) my mom in action as nana. I truly understand the gift of having your mom around who also happens to be awesome, around when you become a mom (even though I am not a mom yet). She was ready and willing to help for anything anytime. She thought of fun activities, meals, snacks, and made sure there was time for rest for the new mom. Becoming a mom is such a life changing event and to have your mom there to share in the tears of joy and change, must help give you that extra strength you need to continue the journey.
I am so very proud of my sister and brother-in-law for their strength and love, it is great to see their family evolve. This past week are the kind of weeks that send you great reminders of what life is truly about; love and family and how important it is to stay present.
Us ladies are definitely getting out numbered by all these boys.... but, so far, no complaints. They have kept us very entertained.
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yay, i've been waiting for this post! congrats to all of you! he's precious! i love your thoughts on your mom being there....there really is something about having your mom there to help with your own little one. it made me reflect on my mom coming out when owen was born. i cried and cried when she had to leave. i look back on that time with her around with great nostalgia and as cherished time.
Lins- what beautiful reflections! I write this to you between one of our night feedings. I definitely have some grieving to do, BUT at the sane time I couldn't feel more blessed, we had an amazing evening and Kestan gave his new brother lots if kisses. He loved inspecting all his parts. I will continue moving really slowly and enjoy just bring present. BIG thank you for all of your help and love!
thanks ladies! i know you understand alisa :) both of you such a great mothers and continued goodness for your wild yet beautiful journey with your kiddos. shan, i know this process will be just that, a process, and your ability to stay present and grateful will only help. the past few days have been very special, i have loved being a part of it.
Lindsay, what beautiful, heartfelt feelings you have expressed. You have witnessed some wonderful baby moments, and I have no doubt that you, too, will be the best mother. I am grateful to be able to be so close w/you both, and to share in all these great events.
xox
thanks mom!!
Wonderful words.
Ahh, dashing little devil our new Ashton is. (Calmest devil I have ever seen.)
Thank you so much for taking time out of your day and night to make KK comfortable and happy during his transition to big brother.
He is still organizing his new toy bin. Thank you for building it with him. He said today, as he was getting stuff out of a bin, "sure is nice seeing all my toys now".
chris, glad he likes it. he was a good helper building it! and you are very welcome brother.
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